It was our first Christmas in Florida after moving from Virginia. We were out of sorts.
In Virginia we had decades of traditions to work from. We knew which neighborhoods to visit for a parade of well done lights. We looked forward to our annual visit to Downtown DC to see the National Christmas Tree and the reindeer, the bonfire and the free hot chocolate. And we looked forward to Christmas Eve at Mammaw’s and Christmas morning at our house with the craziness and fun of all the extended family.
Christmas of 2000 was just us. Mom, Dad, and the kids. We were sad that Christmas Eve. We didn’t know where to go to find lights or reindeer or hot chocolate. So we went to find go karts. We thought doing something completely different and zany would stop the sadness of missing the dear and familiar. So go kart riding we went! We laughed alot — not just at the fun of racing each other around the track, but at the complete weirdness of being in Flordia doing "vacation stuff" on Christmas Eve.
But we found out two very special things that Christmas. First, we love each other. Really love each other. We missed Bobi and her family, Mammaw, and Uncle Clint. We missed the cold, the fireplace, and the spot downstairs where we always put the tree. But the most important people in our lives were sharing together the laughter of seeing dad’s wild and wind blown hair as he climbed out of the go kart. We were far away from home and we were lonely. But those that mattered most were there to do all different things that had no special meaning…which made that first Florida Christmas special in it’s own way.
And, second, we learned again that there is One who never changes. When God’s providence invades our lives and so much has changed that we no longer have solid ground to stand on, we can be assured that He who set the stars in place and has named each one also holds us in His firm and loving hands.
Are you experiencing unsettledness, change, disappointment, defered hopes? Is this Christmas going to be "different" for you than Christmases past? Is there something you hoped to have by this Christmas (a new baby, time with cherished family or friends, a new home to celebrate in) that has been providentially denied? Then remember that something hasn’t changed and will never change. In the midst of life’s unplanned happenings, God is sure and faithful and always near.
May the Unchanging One fill your heart with peace as you enjoy both the familiar and the unfamiliar plans He has for you this Christmas.
P.S. By the way, over the past 5 years Florida has become home and we no longer ride go karts on Christmas Eve. We haven’t found reindeer and we have to open our windows to cool down the house enough to enjoy the fireplace. God is faithful. He uses time to heal broken hearts and bring biblical perspective on how change can be used to draw our hearts toward heaven when we will meet the Unchanging One face to face.
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